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Scary world we live in Today

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A day doesn’t go by that when you turn on the radio, tv or social media that you don’t see someone getting robbed, murdered, or raped, etc. Unfortunately it has become a norm in today’s society.

We must learn to be aware of our surroundings and know how to protect ourselves. There are places that will teach you self defense and you can also take a class in order to get a conceal carry license. Just remember that not all places allow conceal carry on their premises. For example – colleges, schools, fairgrounds, court houses etc. Even though they don’t allow doesn’t mean that it is a safe place. So in order to follow rules yet be safe everywhere we are then we need another form of protection.

You may be asking what? There are a variety of non lethal tools that are available. Example – stun gun, pepper spray, and other defense tools.

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Accidental abuse ??

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This also applies to men! I have seen both sides. I believe that some don’t realize they do it but others do and it is really sad. I cringe every time I am around a couple that consistently belittle their partner and treat them like they are an idiot. For that matter I can’t stand for ANYONE  to be belittled. Been there, had that happened! It does nothing for ones self esteem.
FYI!! If you are with someone that does this on purpose then get out! If they think you are that ignorant then why are they with you?? and why are you with them???
This is a serious form of abuse!
That is why as a couple you need to talk about things not talk at each other. Discuss if something is bothering you and the way you feel you are being treated. Some don’t realize they are evening committing a form of abuse. If they listen to you and try to change then they truly love you and if they don’t listen and scoff at you for even mentioning it – then get out!
A relationship should be built on trust, respect, and honesty.

http://www.thefederalistpapers.org/us/woman-realizes-that-shes-been-accidentally-abusing-her-husband-this-whole-time

All about you

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imageNot happy with your life? Then change it! If you are living to please everyone else then you will never be satisfied with life or be happy with yourself. You must decide what you want out of life and go for it. I know from experience that it is easier said then done. I used to feel guilty about putting myself first then I learned for my sanity that there are times that I must put myself first. No one else was stepping into play to put me first and the reason is because that was my job. I’m not saying make everything about you but what I am saying is make sure you are not left out.

You are the one that controls your happiness! Don’t be a doormat!

Don’t let the past define you

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imageNever Never Never allow your past to define you. That is why it’s called in the past because it is behind you. The best thing you can do with your past is learn from it and move on. If we all stayed focused on our past then we wouldn’t get anywhere today.

Everyday is a new day and a new chance to make a fresh start. It is not up to the people that have wronged you or things that didn’t go your way. It is all up to YOU!!! Only you can make the change and decide what you want in life and to be happy. When you figure that out then you are ready to roll and nothing can stop you. If you allow the past to hold you back then the past and everyone in it is winning.

So start TODAY!!! Write it on a post it and stick on your bathroom mirror if you must! TODAY IS THE DAY!! I know how I want my life to be and I’m going for it!!!

Take stepping stones if you must – one at a time and eventually they will get easier and easier.

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Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. 2 Corinthians 5:17

Don’t be afraid to fail

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Being afraid to fail is why most people don’t try. My philosophy is to jump in! If it works then great and if not then you have learned a lesson. At least you tried.
You can debate anything to death but you won’t know 100% until you at least try.
Give yourself a chance and try it! Winners are the ones that tried and never gave up.

Reflection

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Tired of negative grouchy people? Are you reflecting negative attitude yourself? Life is all about choices, we must stop and take a long hard look in the mirror. Are you reflecting what you want to see in others? Attract what you expect from others, Reflect what you desire and then become what you respect. It starts with you! You need to MIRROR WHAT YOU ADMIRE!
When you are around anyone for a lengthy amount of time then their attitudes and temperament has a tendency to rub off on you. So surround yourself with like minded people.
When you have a positive attitude and look for the good in everything then you will start seeing positive things happen in your life.

Proverbs 17:22

Why some doors all of a sudden slam closed

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I have recently had to deal with an unexpected change in my life. Did I get upset? Yes? How was all this new news going to affect my life? As soon as I received the news I called my husband whom promptly told me not to worry about it, their loss and now I would have time for other things.

The next day it was still tender news and still a shock. Then all of a sudden I started remembering bills that were upcoming. How was we going to cover them? I started stressing and getting upset. That is when I set down and prayed about it all again. I felt a sudden peace go over me and I knew God had it handled. He always does but sometimes we jump the gun and try to take care of things on our own.

Now a few days later everything is falling into place and I can see how some things are already working. I know we will be fine and I also know God has something in mind for me. Sometimes he has to slam a door closed to get our attention because we were not listening before. Several months ago I felt a strong urge to leave the job but couldn’t bring myself to do it, I kept talking myself out of it. So now God didn’t give me an option, he did it for me.

So if something sudden happens in your life – Remember – God is just getting your attention! He has something far better in mind.

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