Month: July 2015
This also applies to men! I have seen both sides. I believe that some don’t realize they do it but others do and it is really sad. I cringe every time I am around a couple that consistently belittle their partner and treat them like they are an idiot. For that matter I can’t stand for ANYONE to be belittled. Been there, had that happened! It does nothing for ones self esteem.
FYI!! If you are with someone that does this on purpose then get out! If they think you are that ignorant then why are they with you?? and why are you with them???
This is a serious form of abuse!
That is why as a couple you need to talk about things not talk at each other. Discuss if something is bothering you and the way you feel you are being treated. Some don’t realize they are evening committing a form of abuse. If they listen to you and try to change then they truly love you and if they don’t listen and scoff at you for even mentioning it – then get out!
A relationship should be built on trust, respect, and honesty.
HANDY LITTLE CHART –
God has a positive answer:
|YOU SAY||GOD SAYS||BIBLE VERSES|
|You say: “It’s impossible”||God says: All things are possible||(Luke 18:27)|
|You say: “I’m too tired”||God says: I will give you rest||(Matthew 11:28-30)|
|You say: “Nobody really loves me”||God says: I love you||(John 3:16 & John 3:34 )|
|You say: “I can’t go on”||God says: My grace is sufficient||(II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)|
|You say: “I can’t figure things out”||God says: I will direct your steps||(Proverbs 3:5-6)|
|You say: “I can’t do it”||God says: You can do all things||(Philippians 4:13)|
|You say: “I’m not able”||God says: I am able||(II Corinthians 9:8)|
|You say: “It’s not worth it”||God says: It will be worth it||(Roman 8:28 )|
|You say: “I can’t forgive myself”||God says: I Forgive you||(I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)|
|You say: “I can’t manage”||God says: I will supply all your needs||(Philippians 4:19)|
|You say: “I’m afraid”||God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear||(II Timothy 1:7)|
|You say: “I’m always worried and frustrated”||God says: Cast all your cares on ME||(I Peter 5:7)|
|You say: “I’m not smart enough”||God says: I give you wisdom||(I Corinthians 1:30)|
|You say: “I feel all alone”||God says: I will never leave you or forsake you||(Hebrews 13:5)|